♦ both|er / b'ɒðə r / (bothers bothering bothered) 1 [VERB] with brd-neg, V to-inf, V -ing, V, V with/about n If you do not bother to do something or if you do not bother with it, you do not do it, consider it, or use it because you think it is unnecessary or because you are too lazy. Lots of people don't bother to go through a marriage ceremony these days... Most of the papers didn't even bother reporting it... Nothing I do makes any difference anyway, so why bother? ...and he does not bother with a helmet either. 2 [N-UNCOUNT] also a N Bother means trouble or difficulty. You can also use bother to refer to an activity which causes this, especially when you would prefer not to do it or get involved with it. I usually buy sliced bread-it's less bother... Most men hate the bother of shaving. = trouble 3 [VERB] V n, V n, it V n that/wh, V about n, also it V n to-inf If something bothers you, or if you bother about it, it worries, ...